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Travel Blog: Singapore- Part One: Dinners With Friends In Cities Where Some* Of Us Live

Welcome Back!

I kind of teased the existence of this part of my Malaysia travel series at the very end of the blog last week. It was a very, not so subtle, bit of foreshadowing where I basically was pretty blatantly forthcoming with this blog being the follow up to where we left off. What I wasn’t prepared for was just how much I had to say on the subject, so like Malaysia, this will also be a two parter. So, this will act as the follow up to part one & part two of the Malaysia portion of this trip, but will be their own part one & twos. That make sense? You can go back & read about the Malaysia segment of this trip in the links that I post below if you’d like! I won’t be titling this segment “part three” simply because it’s not. It doesn’t depend on previous context other than knowing where we were prior & how we ended up in Singapore following our time in Malaysia. For all intents & purposes, it is a stand alone as it has nothing to do with diving, navigating Malaysia, or the vast majority of the people listed therein (Evan naturally still exists & we have a few cameo mentions here & there). The only direct tie we’re going to have is the dating. I’m going to continue where I left off in part two of the Malaysia series finishing out the day I left off on & using the continued dates thereafter. We’ll say it’s like a stand alone sequel, both to the Malaysia portion of the trip, as well as my previous trip to Singapore, which I will also link below! Any questions about that? Well, it wouldn’t really matter if you did because this is a blog, now a forum so, let’s get this show on the road once more!


SINGAPORE

Day Nine Continued…


Our flight from Kuala Lumpur was a quick one, maybe an hour total. We landed in Singapore at Changi Airport right around 8:30 in the evening. I’m glad someone was looking out for me in the booking of our Scoot flight in, because we ended up picking to sit on the left side of the aircraft, which got us the amazing view of the harbor with all of the ships docked on the way in.

We were with our luggage & through customs fairly quickly with little to no fuss & were immediately spit out in Terminal 1, right in front of The Jewel.

The Jewel At Night. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

In all of the pictures, if you search the “Singapore Airport” or “Changi Airport,” the first thing to come up is the Jewel. The Jewel is effectively a mall, but to say it’s just that would be to do it a massive disservice. You see The Jewel IS a mall, but it also holds a massive botanical garden complete with sky bridges, 360 viewing, & a massive waterfall that rains from the center of the glass dome encapsulating the gardens, five stories down, into a basin. It’s breathtaking, honestly, & it was one of the main ‘touristy’ things that Evan wanted to see while we were in Singapore. It got marked off the list as soon as we walked out the doors from baggage claim.

At the time that we were there, The Jewel was doing a partnership with Disney to celebrate the introduction of the Disney Cruise that now leaves from Singapore. This meant that many of the topiaries, the floral arrangements, the what have you, were modeled after Disney Characters. Even the music that played in the botanical gardens, overlooking the falls, were popular Disney, or Disney owned, themes or melodies. As we walked up to the first floor observation platform for the waterfall music from Avatar was playing. By the time we left it was The Avengers theme.

For a Saturday night The Jewel wasn’t overly crowded. It was busy, but it wasn’t a mad house, which was refreshing. We left it behind & descended the escalator down a level or two to the ride share pick up.

Several years back Grab had bought out Uber’s license for the country of Singapore. The app & the interface for Grab is almost identical to that of Uber or Uber Eats & it’s just as easy & friendly to navigate. We Grab’d a ride & off we went from the airport to our hotel.

I’d like to stop here & hype up our hotel. When we were booking this trip I stumbled upon a major deal for the hotel we ended up staying at. Evan was a little on the fence about it, but I ended up insisting & booked us a three night stay at the ParkRoyal Pickering. He later would inform me that I was exuberantly & expertly correct in my selection for us.

ParkRoyal Pickering

The ParkRoyal Pickering is a staple of Singapore. It is a Michelin Guide recognized hotel, receiving what is known as a Michelin Key which is the hotel version of a Michelin Star. There are seven total Michelin Key’d hotels in Singapore. The hotel itself features an incredible biophilic design that features over 15,000 square meters of sky gardens, waterfalls, & planter terraces. It also has a rooftop farm where many of the ingredients for the restaurants housed within are farmed. It boasts eco-friendly amenities & designs throughout & actively practices sustainability & incorporates a number of facets to reduce the building’s carbon foot print. In addition to all of these statistics, the hotel & its rooms are simply stunning.

Under The ParkRoyal Pickering. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

When you disembark your ride at the entrance of the hotel you are greeted by concrete, stone, soft water features, & an army of orchids. In addition to the very personable staff of course. When you enter through the main doors the orchids continue endlessly & the reception desk sits off to the right in what looks like a limestone cave made entirely of wood. The tile floors give way to dark wood floors which eventually melt into soft green carpet with clustered tuffs of ‘moss’ sewn in. To the left as you walk towards the elevators & the main level restaurant are a number of seating areas made of high wicker chairs & low, lava rock-esque tables. The right side of the walk is dotted with paper lanterns that sit perched above the lava rock bed water feature that runs the length of the hall. It is truly an immersive marvel & I haven’t even begun to talk about the scent.

Orchids In The Lobby. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

To say the scent of the ParkRoyal Pickering is intoxicating would be an understatement. I want to bathe in it. I loved it so much that, not only did I request to buy a candle, a sample, something, of the scent at the end of our stay, I kept my suitcase in the bedroom at home for an additional week just because it was permeating the smell into our bedroom at home. It’s delightful. The woman at reception gave me a site to look up for a candle of the scent, but it unfortunately doesn’t seem like they make it anymore or carry it. However, the notes are Green Vetiver, Rosebud, Lily of the Valley, Saffron, Rosebush Leaf, Lavender Blossom, & White Cedarwood. It’s warm & green & vivacious but also incredibly calming & soft. The florals, while being one of the main notes across the board, aren’t overbearing, nor do they lean overly feminine or masculine. It articulates the duality of the hotel in a perfect way, this urban garden made of concrete & wood & stone & an overabundance of greenery. I desperately need a way to have it present in my home.

We checked in fairly quickly & were given our keys to our room on the eighth floor. One thing that I didn’t realize about the hotel is that after the fifth floor, where the amenities reside, the hotel is made up of three interconnected towers that are connected by walkways to get to your room. I am desperately afraid of heights.

We got up to the eighth floor, too a right, & went out the glass doors onto the walkway & I immediately froze. The walkway is only about three feet wide & the railing is made of concrete poles stuck in the cement with no top railing between them. The walkway also isn’t flush against the building, it features a couple of rooms along the way, but also large gaps where there are climbing plants that go from floor five all the way up. Additionally these walkways are on the outside of the building, so off to the side, if you look down, it’s just straight down to the street. Every time I crossed it, the multiple times a day, I had to hug the plant side & stare straight ahead.

We got to our room, again, a vibe & then some. It featured large glass windows with a series of shading & privacy options, a very Japandi style aesthetic of almost entirely wood surfaces, & a massive bed.

Our Room

When I say a massive bed, I mean a massive bed. This thing was listed as a king but was definitely two fulls, if not two queens, pushed together. I could lay on it, as a 6’4” individual, & not reach the other side. It was wild. Literally with the two of us laying in it we could’ve fit probably two more people between us comfortably & still had room.

Seeing as it was getting fairly late in the evening & we’d had a long day of travel, we freshened up & went in search of food.

We asked the receptionist who had checked us in for any late night food recommendations, at this point it was around 9:30-ish. She pointed us to the Hawker stalls at Lau Pa Sat just down the street. Which I thought was an excellent idea & it was only about a ten minute walk from us.

If you aren’t familiar with the term, a hawker stall is a small trade stall typically specializing in a small handful of relatively inexpensive items. They are notorious all over Asia, Singapore boasts around 285 of them that are Michelin recognized. They are typically open facing with a counter you walk up to & place your order at with a quant kitchen sat behind them. They are typically in groups or centers, which is exactly what Lau Pa Sat is.

Lau Pa Sat Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Lau Pa Sat (Old Market in Mandarin) is one of Singapore’s oldest food markets. It recently celebrated its 130th anniversary. It contains around 80 hawker stalls under its roof & the surrounding streets, & sits right in the middle of the Downtown Core surrounded by mountainous buildings. It’s sitting on a plot of land that is worth hundreds of millions if not billions of dollars & I applaud Singapore for preserving it & keeping it a priority & a cultural center!

Having been to Singapore in the past, I was no stranger to the hawker markets, though it was new for Evan. It was something that I knew I wanted to include in our itinerary at some point, the opportunity had just presented itself earlier than we’d expected. We wandered around the fairly busy market, it was a Saturday night after all, taking in the smells & the options before settling in on traditional Satay.

Satay At Lau Pa Sat

Satay is super easy; grilled meat on sticks with a dipping sauce & some rice cake. We opted for a shop called Stall 7 & 8, which came highly recommended for basic satay & had clearly done well enough for themselves that they took up two stall spots on the road outside of Lau Pa Sat. We walked up & ordered a number of beef & chicken skewers as well as a couple of prawn skewers. They gave us a pager & we went over a Sugarcane Juice vendor for drinks. Evan got the calamansi one & I got the traditional.

Our pager went off shortly thereafter & we sat at one of the communal tables, working through our skewers until the point where we couldn’t take it anymore & threw in the towel.

Before heading back to the room for a shower & bed, we popped into the 7-Eleven right next door to pick up an energy drink for the morning & a protein bar, as well as a small assortment of local candies & a coke zero for the night.

Taxi Out Front Of The ParkRoyal Pickering. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Nine


Day Ten

Barry’s Raffles Place. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

The reason for the protein bar & the energy drink purchase the prior evening was because Evan & I had booked a spot at Barry’s Raffles Place at 8:30 AM. We typically are Barry’s frequenters here in Nashville, but it’s always nice to find one when you travel as well. It helps to have an idea of what you’re getting into & allows you to get a 50 minute, hard workout in, & go about your day.

We got up around 7/7:30 for the class & made our way back towards Lau Pa Sat to the building that hosts Barry’s. It was at this point where I noticed a little bit of fogginess in my left eye. It was just in the lower right corner & honestly, just looked like a bit of grime on my contact lens. I attempted to clean it off at Barry’s to no avail. And yes, this strange detail will have relevance going forward.

The class was a difficult one, with several challenges imbedded throughout. Having not done a formal workout (scuba burns a lot of calories) in over ten days at this point, it proved even more difficult, but we made it through with sweaty, depleted colors.

Lau Pa Sat From Barry’s. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

After the workout class I grabbed a “Barry’s Raffles” t-shirt to join my collection of Barry’s shirts from around the world & we headed back downstairs & across the street to Lau Pa Sat in search of a bit more morning sustenance. We both were in desperate need of coffee. We had early lunch plans so we were trying to save our appetite for that, but we needed that caffeine carryover in the interim.

At the center of Lau Pa Sat there is a 24 hour drink stand. It serves all kinds of beverages of the soft variety & I think maybe also beers. It was one of the only things open at what would have been about 9:45 in the morning & they had drawn in a little bit of a crowd. Many people who had ordered & were eating had plates with Kaya Toast & Dippy Eggs in addition to the glorious elixir of life. No, not whiskey, Kopi.

Kopi is the Singaporean term for a robusta brewed coffee with condensed milk & sugar. It is very similar in style to Vietnamese Coffee. It is heavenly as most things with condensed milk & sugar are known to be. I ordered one for myself but Evan resigned himself to waiting til we got back to the hotel to pop a Nespresso pod in the in-room Nespresso machine…that was until he tried mine at which point he got back in line to get his own.

Back at our hotel we started getting ready for our early afternoon lunch, showering the workout & morning humidity away, laying out outfit, & ditching my contact lenses for glasses after the cloudiness had begun to spread from just the corner of my eye to the entirety of it.

It is now time for a “my personal medical history” break. In the past I have had a small number of optical migraines. Essentially what happens here is that there’s some sort of pressure put on the optic nerve & your brain perceives the information through a hazy lens. It can be brought on by a number of things & as of yet, we have yet to find what my trigger for them is. That’s the theory we were going with at the time at least & yes, I have seen a number of doctors about it.

I know I just did an ADHD indulgent aside, but I’m going to require another one here. This one is not about my ocular health, but instead about the lovely duo we were about to go to lunch with.

I met Linus & Karen Chua on my first Singapore Airlines flight from LA to Singapore back in 2022. At the time the Singaporean couple was based out of Los Angeles & were commuting back to Singapore to visit family & friends. They were kind enough to see me, a solo traveler on his first expedition to the Asian continent, & strike up conversation with me. They also essentially ended up giving me about 50% of my itinerary for the last time I was in Singapore. They’re the loveliest of people & over the years we’ve kept in touch, even following their move back to Singapore.

I had messaged the two of them on Instagram prior to our departure from the states, asking if they wanted to do lunch or something while we were in town, not knowing if the phone numbers that I had for them were still theirs or not. I never heard from them. That was until a day or two prior to our flight to Singapore when Linus replied & we arranged to meet up for lunch. Come to find out the Chuas, who are devout Catholics, had given up social media for Lent & Linus had randomly received a pull to check his notifications for the socials that he’d moved to the last page of apps on his phone & found my message.

They were gracious enough to come by the hotel & pick us up & right at 11:30, they pulled out, sprung out the car, & greeted the two of us with enormous hugs even despite having never met Evan. They even brought us two jars of Kaya from Ya Kun! They are truly lovely people.

They had picked out a spot for lunch for the for of us called “Violet Oon” by famed local chef Violet Oon. We went to their Dempsey Hill location, which was in an old army barracks that had been converted into a series of shops & restaurants, as well as a park. The barracks themselves had been where Linus’s family had dropped him off to begin his Compulsory Military Service.

Chicken Satay At Violet Oon

They had picked out Violet Oon because it was a restaurant that served Peranakan Cuisine. A food steeped heavily in Singaporean culture, Peranakan blends elements of Chinese cooking with Malaysian & Indian to create something uniquely Singaporean that reflects the culture, history, & the Peranakan people themselves. Honestly, to most people I pitch the idea to they seem strangely skeptical, that is until you frame is as the very best of Indian, Southeast Asian/Malaysian, & Chinese foods meshed into one dish. Then they’re always on board.

At Violet Oon we ate family style. We had the Chuas order with a few suggestions here & there from the waitress. They were lovingly very careful with Evan’s limited spice tolerance which was very thoughtful of them to do.

For lunch we had a large assortment of foods over just as large an assortment of courses. We started with their version of chicken satay, Kuay Pie Tee, & Ngoh Hiang. Our next course was Assam Nanas Barramundi, Dry Laksa, Beef Rendang, & Babi Pongteh which is actually one of the first dishes that Linus said Karen made for him when they started dating. For dessert we had Calamansi Sorbet, Roti Jala with Banana Pengat, Kueh Beng Kah, & Gula Melaka Tea Cake with Gula Melaka Ice Cream. Of all of these dishes my favorites were the Kuay Pie Tee, the Babi Pongteh, & the Roti Jala, if I’m just picking one from each course.

We ended up sitting at lunch well into the afternoon, to the point where the restaurant was actually closing at which time we were given an amazingly in-depth driving tour of the city by our hosts!

CapitaSpring Building, Central Business District. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

We didn’t ask them to do that for us, but they generously offered & we weren’t about to turn down a chance to see the city through the stories & eyes of those who grew up there & lived there. Especially when they’re such warm & welcoming individuals. They took us around the city showing us everything from the Botanic Gardens, to the Raffles Hotel, finally ending at the Marina Barrage. At the Marina Barrage we got out & walked the dam. They informed us of the history, as well as Singapore’s ongoing problem with water retention. The barrage was installed to cut the city’s water loss exponentially. They then took us back to our hotel where we hugged them & thanked them profusely for such an outstanding afternoon & the exemplary company.

By the time that we got back to the ParkRoyal it was about 2:30 or 3 PM. We opted for a nap after our early morning & when we awoke we decided that it was time to go downstairs & check out the pool.

Cabanas At The ParkRoyal Pickering Pool. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

The pool at the ParkRoyal Pickering is situated on the fifth floor of the building. It occupies the right side of the level (if you’re on the street looking at the building) & has a mirrored fountain on the other side that, while we were there, was being used for wedding photos for a reception happening in the building. There is also a greenway walk around the entirety of the level which takes you through some of the main gardens of the facility. Additionally, the fitness center & spa both overlook the infinity edged pool. All along the pool, recessed from the walkway, or outright jutting into the water, there are several birdcage-esque cabanas, each painted a different pop of color amongst the otherwise earth tones & the greens of the facilities.

Pool At ParkRoyal Pickering. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

When you exit the elevator you are greeted by a member of the hotel staff who hands you a towel & offers you a glass of the daily fruit infused water or their hot lemon tea. We parked our towels, phones, room keys, shirts, shoes, what have you on a lounge chair near the fitness center & made our way into the water.

The pool is almost entirely shaded, at least it was when we were there, but it honestly kind of matches the vibe. However, that, mixed with the wind, made the water in the pool pretty chilly. We hung out there against the ledge that overlooks Hong Lim Park, watching the people below & the crows swoop in to take a drink from the water return below the end of the infinity pool. When we had our fill of the cool water, we toweled off, & made our way back upstairs to get ready for dinner.

At this point my left eye had degraded further. My vision, which was only slightly blurry at lunch, was now almost entirely clouded. Not only that, but the physical lens of my eye had clouded over, something that had never happened in the past when it came to my optical migraines... Or at least it was something that I had never noticed happening before. I opted to try some medicated eye drops that I had & doubled down on the migraine medication that I carry with me.

The eye drops were not so fun. They burned horribly & made my eye completely red. I then switched to the dry eye drops I use that were recommended to me by my optometrist. Of course, google always points you to the worst possible diagnosis & was telling me that I had Acute Angle-Closure Glaucoma, which is where the iris gets stuck trying to contract/retract & causes the eye to be unable to drain fluid. It can lead to blindness if not treated very quickly. We ruled this out however when I found no “severe pain” as is listed all over, nor did I have shadowing, or half the other symptoms. Apparently ocular migraines can also have physical clouding of the lens, the thing that concerned me was the fact that I had developed halos in my vision around lights, which definitely leans more into the glaucoma lane. We decided that we were going to go ahead with our evening plans & in the event that things got any worse in any way, we’d go to the emergency room.

Planter Terraces At The ParkRoyal Pickering. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

I always debate telling stories like that in my travel blogs. I always think to myself “well, what if ParkRoyal sees this & that’s what deters them from wanted to do anything with you in the future?” or “what if one of the other places listed & tagged here don’t share this because of that?” & I guess my answer to that is simple. While I do these blogs & tag & mention all of the parties involved, none of this is paid for or incentivized by any of them. I write these travel blogs for the same reason that I write any of my other blogs or why I write songs; to tell stories. That’s a part of the story of this trip. It frames why certain decisions get made, why certain things get opted out of, & informs those of you who come here simply looking to read the story I have to tell of the details of this adventure. Not every part of every adventure is glamorous or shiny or positive & that’s life. Without all of that, this would feel inauthentic to me, too polished, & that’s not why I do this. The moment I do something like that, where it’s praise to the high heavens & lacks the nitty gritty, it will because it is in partnership with someone involved in the story, at which point I will let you all know that was the case & that they have asked me to refrain from such details. Anyway. Continuing on.

Dinner was at a little restaurant called Odette. This year Odette was once again labeled the top restaurant in Singapore by The World’s 50 Best Restaurants. It currently sits ranked 19th in all of Asia & last year was #25 on the list of the best restaurants in the world (this year’s list isn’t out yet). It currently has three Michelin stars & offers French Contemporary food framed around Chef Julien Royer’s tenure in Singapore.

We initially weren’t going to go, full transparency, it’s pricey, but were talked into it by Erica while in Malaysia. Erica had previously dined at Odette her last time through Singapore & claimed it as one of the top ten meals of her life. She gave it glowing review upon glowing review & when we initially looked to book it, following this conversation, we found it booked up. That was until one night when we checked again & found that they had opened up reservations for that Sunday evening. We then justified it because our trip had been payed for already months in advance, so other than our resort incidentals & our food in Singapore, the trip had already been budgeted out & executed.

Odette Sign Through Fabric. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Odette was only around a fifteen minute walk from our hotel. It was around mid-dinner time when we began to walk there so there were quite a few people out, each settling into their respective restaurants. The sun was also starting to set, though we’d clearly dressed more for the fact that we were going to be inside & the night we would greet upon exiting the restaurant. It was a warm walk.

Odette is one of three restaurants housed in the National Gallery Singapore, which is an art museum that used to be the former Supreme Court & City Hall buildings until the two buildings were merged & converted into the art gallery. When I went in search of a restroom to reapply eye drops towards the beginning of the dinner, I was instructed through the gallery & told to turn right at the jail cells. They weren’t joking, there are literally jail cells still in the build that now serve as a historical exhibit.

We were sat fairly close to the kitchen, greeted by Sarah, who would be the one primarily taking care of us over the evening & handed our menus. Sarah went over the pairing & wine options with us before leaving us with our first couple of bites.

Grignotages. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

To say this was a long dinner with a lot of courses would be an understatement. I have, in my record here, three courses that appear before the menu we were given at the end of the night even kicks in. They are referred to as Grignotages or roughly translated to “nibbling.” So for them, I will have to be a little vague as this was almost a month ago & I do not recall entirely what they were specifically. I can tell you what I do remember, as well as my feelings around them still!

Mushroom Soup & Tart. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Bread.

The first set (yes set) of items were little bites. Served in a group of three we had a Tuna Belly, Maki-esque bite, a “taco” made from sashimi, & fresh herbs with a radish as the “shell,” & a Yeast Doughnut stuffed with soft cheese & topped with some form of cured pork. Of the three of them I definitely favored the donut, but that’s only in the slightest bit over the others. I could have made a meal of any or all three.

The next snack was an ode to the mushroom. It consisted of two parts; a Mushroom Tart & and a creamy Mushroom Soup. Served in a mushroom shaped cup with a wooden cap lid, the mushroom soup was warm & evolved as you went down the layer & the tart was earthy & flakey. Both felt very comforting.

The final snack course was bread, but not just any bread, different varietals of sourdough that used an heritage rye from Les Moulins d’Antoine cultivated & milled by 15 local farmers. We had a slice of the loaf, small individual loaves, & a black truffle, laminated roll of some kind. They came with a cultivated butter & our first wine pairing, a sparkling Greek Cuvee Des Vignerons by Vassaltis called ‘Gramina’ from 2022.

Hokkaido Botan Ebi. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

In addition to bread & cuvee we also got our first course, the Hokkaido Botan Ebi. Bafun Uni (Sea Urchin) with Brown Butter ‘Ponzu’ & Maison ‘Kaviari’ Caviar. The Uni was served atop a buttery bit of bread itself. Small but packed a punch. The rest of the course came presented in a bowl. The ‘ponzu’ acting a broth for the Botan Ebi (shrimp), with the caviar nestled in the middle. The whole course was buttery on buttery on top of buttery in all of the right ways. What?! Butter?! In French food?! Shocking!!! Sarah would make a similar joke later in the meal & I have genuinely no complaints over the amount of butter use in this tasting menu.

Crab Contrast. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Crab Contrast. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Next up was a dish they call “Crab ‘Contrast.’” It was also a monster of a course in terms of its respective size. The Crab ‘Contrast’ consists of several items. A bit of Crab Leg swimming in a deep green Béarnaise, chilled Crab Meat in a Rémoulade served under a dollop of Horseradish Ice Cream, & a bun stuffed with their take on Singaporean Chili Crab. My clear winner here was the one with the savory ice cream which Sarah said took them a while to perfect. She said a lot of guests wouldn’t finish the course initially because they found the ice cream had far too much horseradish in it. It has since been adjusted several times. This course was paired with ‘Fermier’ Albariño from Niigata, Japan from 2024.

Langoustine Comme Un Dumpling. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

The following course was my favorite of the night. It had the option to add black truffle to it, but Evan & I opted out of it. I can see how it would make the dish pop off even more than it already did though. Langoustine “Comme Un Dumpling’ (like a dumpling). Langoustine (obviously), Leek Fondue (to die for), Vin Jaune (a dry French white wine), & Katsoubushi (a dashi made of skipjack & seaweed). Oh my lord. This dish was everything. Truly everything. It was herbal & buttery & packed to the gills with umami. It was so good that we had the staff save the pitcher of sauce on the table for us so that we could dip bread into it. This is where that black truffle roll really came in handy. The menu could’ve just been this dish over & over & over again & I’d have left overjoyed. It was paired with Marques De Murrieta ‘Capellania’ from 2018.

Jeju Abalone & Foie Gras Duo

To follow this high, however, we have what is probably, unfortunately, one of my least favorite courses of the night. I think my reasons for disliking this dish lay entirely in the ‘fattiness’ of it. It was a Jeju Abalone & Foie Gras Duo.

The dish is served like a soup. A bowl is brought out with the abalone & foie gras cut up in equal parts & intermixed then a Pork Broth with Shiitake & Yuzu is poured over top. It was just a lot of the same textures happening within the soup & the broth was a little too ‘wintery’ for my taste & what otherwise felt like a fairly spring forward menu. It was paired with the 2021 vintage of the Yangarra Estate in McLaren Vale, Australia’s ‘Roux Beaute.’

Shimane Cod.

Our last course before the main course was fish. Shimane Cod to be exact. This dish came with a Sauce Champagne, grilled Yari Ika (spear squid), & Tarragon Oil & sprigs. I really loved this dish. Buttery, of course, but the fish was so perfectly cooked & offered such an amazing contrast to the texture of the squid with the lulling herbaciousness of the tarragon. Top marks. Honestly, this dish might have been top three of the night for me in retrospect! It came paired with Antoine Chevalier Coteaux Champeniois from 2023.

The main course was first presented to us from the pan in which it was cooked. Very showy with smoke & all! Roasted on a bed of Cambodian Kampot Peppers accompanied by an assortment of flowers, we had Pigeon from Brittany. It was then returned to the kitchen to be dressed & plated.

Kampot Pepper Crusted Pigeon.

Kampot Pepper Crusted Pigeon Plated

I can feel it. I can feel the amount of people reading this who were just put off by the notion of eating pigeon. How do I know? Well, every time I mention this story/menu to people I get that reaction. It seems to me a lot of the, mostly American, audience is put off by that & I honestly get why. We don’t view pigeon like we do dove (which people active hunt), even though they are from the same family. In the US, pigeons are generally considered dirty street pests that most people can’t fathom consuming. However, some of you may have already eaten pigeon without your knowing. It occasionally appears on a menu as “Squab.” These pigeons are specifically raised for their meat & are fed a particular diet. They aren’t just flying about a city picking through the ruffage.

The pigeon was plated & served with a glass of Clusel Roch 2021 ‘Les Grandes Places’ from Côte-Rôtie. A red to go with the intense pepperiness of the bird & the medium-rare preparation they had suggested for it. It came with the butterflied breast & a leg which had a note wrapped around it, harkening back to the days of the carrier pigeon. The liver had been turned into a mousse & injected into a Moral Mushroom which was nestled next to a bed of shelled Sugar Snap Peas. The whole dish was then laid with the jus from the bird & a Black Garlic paste.

I talk of the pigeon a lot, it was the main course after all. That being said, I don’t think it was my favorite. In all honesty, I actually think it sits pretty far down the list of my ranking for the overall meal. It wasn’t bad by any stretch of the imagination, in fact it was quite good. It just didn’t blow me out of the water like some of the other dishes on this menu.

Palette Cleanser.Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Before dessert we were offered a cheese course. Both getting fairly full & working on plans that followed dinner, we graciously passed.

Before we moved on we were given a palette cleanser. A very vivacious & green sorbet of some kind served with citrus & granita. I wish I could recall what type of any of it it was, but unfortunately, all I have is a picture to offer. I remember it being exceedingly bright &, as aforementioned, green. Maybe it had something to do with apple if my mind serves me…

Hazelnut-t-ella.

Our main dessert course was right up my alley. I noticed a bit of a trend in Singapore while we were there of the Hazelnut. While Dubai Chocolate is currently ransacking The US, hazelnut was having its moment in the sun in Singapore. I actually spent the first four years of my life growing up on a hazelnut farm in Oregon, so they have a very special place in my heart & of course my palette. I love them.

Dessert was a dish they call Hazelnu-t-ella. It was a pastry shell with Piedmont Hazelnut Praliné & Jivara Chocolate topped with Chestnut Ice Cream & little droppers of pure hazelnut oil. I was in heaven. What a perfect dessert. Honestly, I’m such a sucker for a really good hazelnut dessert & this delivered over & over again!

Douceurs. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Last we closed out the night with just a few more little bites. Some sort of meringue bites, a plating of different fruits; Melon, Apple, & Strawberry, & two final little baked bites.

I think all in all we were at dinner for around 3-4 hours. It was definitely in the top 10 meals I have had in my lifetime & I think the pacing we went at prevented the common problem that wine pairings often result in, which is drunkenness. On our way out the door Sarah gave us gift boxes with a jam inside as a souvenir, in addition to our menus from the evening.

Odette Sign.

At this point my eye had almost entirely cleared up! This fortunately mostly ruled out glaucoma which tends to get worse at night from the pupil trying to open up as wide as possible to let light in. There was still a slight blurriness, but the eye drops I’d been dipping off to the restroom to apply over the course of the meal certainly seemed to help.

While we were at dinner Evan had been in contact with a coworker of his, Io. They both work for Duolingo, on the Duolingo English Test side, & had never physically met. Most of the Duo English Test team is scattered all over the world & Io, & her partner, Piri, who also works for Duo, just happened to be in Singapore at the same time as us.

Marina Bay Sans At Night. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

Typically splitting time between Dubai & Greece, they had flown Dubai after the war broke out in Iran. The only flight they could get out was to Vietnam. Once they got there they found that they couldn’t get many flights back to the Mediterranean, so they came down to Singapore to see if they’d have better luck at a larger international airport. He’d been coordinating with them all day & we were finally able to set a time & met them for drinks!

The last time I was in Singapore I spent a long afternoon in the MO Bar. Located inside the Mandarin Oriental hotel, the MO Bar, at the time I was there last, was doing a series of cocktails that celebrated a number of countries on the Asian continent. This time the drinks were themed around the many different prominent art forms of Singapore & I had convinced the group to make it the destination for our meet up & collective nightcap.

The last time I was at the Mandarin Oriental it was an entirely different vibe. Dark, brooding, earth toned, natural elements. This time it had undergone a full make over. The walls were bright, the art colorful & full of whimsy. An entirely different feel from before.

We met the Duo duo down out in front of the lobby, hugged & greeted, & we made our way up to the bar together.

They didn’t have a table for us, unfortunately, but they were able to put us at one of the standing room high tops. They brought around a small snack & the menu. We each took turns looking through it & getting recommendations from the bar manager who was serving us before we made our decisions.

MO Bar Menu

I ended up ordering the Pine-dustry, a cocktail of Cold Distilled Pineapple, Silver Patrón, White Wine Reduction, & Coconut garnished with a little Pineapple Tart. It was design to commemorate the Singapore bar industry, which is one of the top rated in the world.  Evan had the Bukit Kemas; Ryukyu Baijiu, Lotus Lillet Blanc, & Roasted Corn. It was in celebration of local jewelry house Forbidden Hill. Piri got the Forest Fire. A Monkey Shoulder Whiskey, Los Siete Misterios Mezcal, Pala & Cengkeh Amaro, & Lapsang drink inspired by the National Gallery Singapore, where we just were, specifically Raden Saleh’s painting Boschbrand. Finally, Io got The Jukuleles, named after the four man Singaporean band. It was Código Mezcal, Yuzu Marmalade, Tulasi, & Angostura. The drinks were excellent as always & the conversation was joyful & felt like drinks with people we’d known for ages.

We were at the bar for a good hour/hour & a half. At one point we were brought a round of shots by the staff, which we hesitantly, yet gratefully accepted. We all found ourselves getting more & more tired & I, unfortunately, found my eye burning more & more. So we called it, rode back down the elevator to the lobby, called our separate cabs, bid each other luck & well wishes, & went back off to end the night in our respective hotels.

Terraces. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Ten


Plumeria. Photo Credit: Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Part One

Travel Blog: Malaysia- Part Two: Dives, Vibes, & An Indoor Water Feature

Welcome back to my two part series on my most recent trip to Malaysia! If you are new here, welcome, I’m happy to have you. I just wanted to let you know that there’s a part one to this whole adventure that you may want to stop, go back, & take a gander at before we continue on. Totally up to you if you’d like to do that, there’s probably some set ups & introductions in there that will be continued on here, but either way, I’m happy you’re here! I’ll link part one in a big ole button below this introductory paragraph before we get that big, bold “part two” title & continue on. If you read part one & are here for part two, you honor me with your commitment! Thanks to you as well! Alright, enough of my jabbering, let’s get back to it shall we?


PART TWO:

Day Five


Our morning dive time reset. The previous day, with our trip to Sipadan, we’d had to be up & at the boat by 6 AM. Today we weren’t required on the jetty until 8 AM. That didn’t stop the call to prayer from waking us up, though I think Evan & I pushed through until around 6/6:30 at which point we gave up & went down to breakfast.

Following the day prior, Evan had resigned himself to ‘possibility.’ He would go down to the jetty for each perspective dive, sit through the briefing, & decide, based on the brief, whether the dive was for him or not. We call that growth folks. Snaps for the growth.

Evan didn’t end up going, but this morning we were heading over to the neighboring island of Kapalai to dive the house reef of Sipadan Kapalai Dive Resort, called “Mandarin Gardens.” The house reef featured a number of man made structures that acted both as wave breakers & as artificial reefs & they were full to the gills with macro life!

Ornate Ghost Pipefish

Nudibranch

Chocolate Chip Starfish

Although we were all fairly on top of one another this dive & the visibility was only about 30 feet, the sight was exceptional. There was a lot of “look at this, no wait, look at that, ooo, look what I found!” going around. Right off the bat, in the water Roy found an black Ornate Ghost Pipefish. We found a number of Mantis Shrimp, a Crocodile Fish, tons of Rabbitfish & Angels, Nudibranchs on nubibranchs on nudibranchs, Coral Shrimp, Chocolate Chip Starfish, Coral Catfish, more Batfish, another Flamboyant Cuttlefish, & finally something I never thought I’d see again in my life, much less all the way up here off the coast of Borneo. The Lembeh Sea Dragon.

I’m going to stop here & geek out over a fish for a second. This is my blog, I can do that if I want. The Lembeh Sea Dragon is a fish that most divers go their entire lives without seeing, in part because it is so very difficult to see. It looks like a piece of hair or a little bit of algae that’s come loose from the reef & is hanging on by a thread as it sways in the current, & I guess that’s the point. The dragon is only around 1mm in width & is only about 3-4 cm in length, that is about the thickness of a fingernail & the length of your average table grape. Tiny. The crazy part is, the guy that spotted it did so from a good 10 feet above it. It was unfortunately too small for my videos to pick up & focus on.

Flamboyant Cuttlefish

Mantis Shrimp

I first saw a Lembeh Sea Dragon when I was diving the Lembeh Strait back in October of 2022. You can read about that here. The Lembeh Strait is a 10 mile long stretch of ocean that sits between the islands of North Sulawesi & Lembeh in Indonesia. It is also one of the premiere dive spots in the world because of the muck diving here & the specialized creatures that live here, like the Lembeh Sea Dragon. It is also around 825 miles from Sipadan as the crow flies. You can then imagine my surprise at finding this tiny little special speck that far north of its typical habitat. I was geeking out then, just as I am now.

After out dive had concluded we went back to Mabul for our surface interval. The food & beverage offerings were once again coffee, tea, juice, cake, & toast. I leaned into the toast & had my entire first slice crumple in the toaster. The tending resort workers & I spent the next ten minutes or so getting it out of the toaster bit by little bit. & yes, it was unplugged. The pineapple jam on slice #2 made the struggle all worth it though.

Fimbriated Moray Eel

Orangutan Crabs

Giant Green Moray Eel

Dive two was back on Mabul as well, this time at a site called “Coral Reef Gardens.” It was a wall dive that also had its fair share of fun little inhabitants to observe. We found a number of Orangutan Crabs in Bubble Coral (the gesture for which I got to demonstrate on land to several people after the fact), a Yellow Boxfish, lots of eels (one of which was a Fimbriated Moray & one Green Moray that was truly massive), a teeny black Frogfish, some Sexy Shrimp (another fun one to try & give hand signals for), &, of course, a number of Nudis, Turtles, & some impressive schools of Anthias! By the way, the dive signal that I gave for “Orangutan Crab” was arms scratching up my sides from hip to arm pit followed by a pincer motion. Tonny replied back to me with the pincer motion & mimed pulling at long hairs on his forearm. I liked mine better.

Lunch was the usual fanfare & was followed in the early afternoon by our afternoon dive.

This dive was only Erica, Jennifer, Roy, Tonny, & me. At least from our boat. The site was just off the resort, but wasn’t Paradise 1 or 2. Instead it was the Seaventures Dive Rig just off shore from us.

Sexy Shrimp

Flower Urchin

Day Octopus

The Seaventures Dive Rig is an old oil rig turned dive hotel & dive site. The rig is mounted into the ocean floor below it at a depth of only around 30-40 feet & features an abundance of man made reefs, all of which are host to a plethora of marine life. Once again, specifically macro. It’s only about a minute & a half-two minute boat ride from the jetty of our dive resort.

The visibility when we got down was pretty low, maybe 20-30 feet max. Additionally, once you got out from under the rig the current was blasting. That’s not to say it wasn’t a great dive with lots to see. There were mantis shrimp, lots of nudis, crocodile fish, eels (including a male Ribbon Eel), Lionfish, Stonefish, Cherry Grouper, big ole Jellyfish, tons of beautiful corals, a type of urchin I had never seen before called a Flower Urchin, a little orange frogfish, Scorpionfish, & we rounded out our dive with a Day Octopus cradled in the rock, completely white.

Clownfish In Anemone

I ended the dive with a little less air than I would’ve liked. I remember slowly ascending up the line that we used to have our safety stop in the midst of the rushing current, just watching my breath drop 10 psi with each methodic one I took, making sure Roy & his spare was in reach if needed. It’s not that I wasn’t checking my air, it was the current kick up & fighting it that caused me to burn through my supply on our way back to our entry point. Evan was less than pleased at the number I told him when I was done. Again, we recognized the problem, & went about ending the dive once it happened & had steps in place in case my air went too far down.

The rest of our evening was spent at the bar with the group. I sat there editing video, Evan edited photos, we had fries, samosas, rum & cokes, & went off to dinner when we were informed of its readiness. It was another early evening though as our 6 AM call to Sipadan awaited us in the morning.

Sipadan Shore by Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Five


Day Six

Back to Sipadan which once again meant back to that 5 AM wake up. We’d planned in advanced this time & ended up getting some cookies from the souvenir shop to have as breakfast so there was at least something on the stomach for dives & medications. We’d snagged a Thai brand of Oreos called Cream-O’s (yes, that’s their real name) & honestly, they were pretty solid! We’ll get more into Cream-O’s later on in this blog, I’m sure!

Sunrise On The Way To Sipadan

The protocol for this morning was the same as our first trip to Sipadan; 6 AM departure with everything loaded onto the boat, 45 minute crossing to Sipadan, check-in at the park office, dive briefing, dive. This morning’s first dive was at “Barracuda Point” just around the bend from where we’d been two days prior. Evan naturally opted out because of the current & instead chose to stay on Sipadan to read & sit on the beach.

Barracuda Point was actually a really solid dive! The visibility was way better than the days prior & while we didn’t run into any schools of Barracuda or Bumphead Parrotfish, we did at least see some, amongst a lot of other things.

Yellowfin Tangs

Six-banded Angelfish

Clown Triggerfish

For starters, the coral here was outstanding. All different shades & expressions as far as the eye could see. The top reef was only about 10-20 feet below the surface & then the entirety of the rest of it slopped off gradually on either side of the point to about 60 feet. Like I said, we did see the two target species here. We ended up running into about four or five different bumpheads & managed one barracuda as it swam along the drop off. Nemo’s parents beware.

Bumphead Parrotfish

In addition we ran into a school of Yellowfin Tangs, a couple of Clown Triggerfish, a rather large set of fish bones, a Six-Banded Angelfish, another huge green moray, a Whitetip Reef Shark, tons of Bubble-Tip Anemones with Clownfish, schools on schools of Green Chromis, & a big ole Napoleon Wrasse! The other half of our group saw an Indo-Pacific Leopard Shark & the FOMO there hit hard.

Our surface interval was also a similar set up as the two days before. Fried noodles, hard boiled eggs, fruit, toast, tea, coffee, & little sausages followed by a briefing for dive number two of the day.

Dive two was also at a dive site close to one from the first trip to Sipadan, this one was on the other side of the island from Barracuda Point at a wall dive called “Staghorn Crest,” so named because of the abundance of Staghorn Coral on the reef here. This site had been requested by Erica because she wanted to get better photos of the schools of Jacks that populate the area. Her request was “get me in the middle of a jack tornado.” So we went jack hunting.

You can see the schools of jacks from the surface of the water, they appear like ever morphing shadows under the surface. We pulled right up to one & Jennifer, Tonny, & Erica were off before the propeller could die down. I was the first in of my group of Darin, his daughter, Deb, & Roy & as soon as I was in the school of jacks came thundering beneath me just about 15 feet below. They swept through followed by Erica with her camera rig finning after them.

The vis on this dive was less than stellar, but I experienced something I’d never experienced in the ocean before here. It swept over the reef almost like a cloud cascading over a mountain top.

Anthias

We were down at around 40 feet after moseying around the wall. Our visibility was already only around 20-30 feet when all of a sudden this cloud of silt & sediment descended upon us. It cut our already fairly low visibility down to around 5 feet on average. At one point the sediment was so thick that I could barely see my hand when I stretched it all the way out in front of me. The craziest part was that it was temporary. We pushed through, continuing on the direction we had been, & eventually came out the other side of it, instantly gaining 10s of feet of visibility.

Other than the jacks, the cloud, & the sheer abundance of Turtles, the dive was less than stellar. Not mad at it though, it was a pretty relaxing one with the current sweeping us sheepishly along.

Smaller “Dinosaur”

Back at the resort we checked off our daily game of “spot the dinosaur” only this time it was a different Asian Water Monitor Lizard than before, this one was much smaller than the one we’d been spotting around the island.

Before departing from the rest of our boat for lunch & the afternoon we were asked by Jennifer if we wanted to join her, her family, Darin’s family, & Erica on an excursion into the village in search of alternative food. They’d been told there were several markets in the village where we could purchase food, though all of the little restaurants on the island were closed for the ongoing observation of the final week of Ramadan. The six of us gathered down by the jetty & began our walk around the island.

One of the main paths on Mabul cuts between the entrance to the resort & the jetty. It then goes all the way across the broad side of the island, curves & meanders through the local village, before looping you back around to the front entrance of the resort once again. We struck out at the first stall which then led us to push farther into the village.

I was clearly at a height disadvantage here as most of the electrical for the homes & businesses, weaving the street, sat about eye level. Any time I needed to cross from one side of the path to the other I had to duck down to avoid the lines.

We eventually found a shop that had some of the items the others were after, picking out chips, some toiletries that were needed, some other different snack foods, & a few local or sought after beverages that were missing from the resort.

Village Laundry by Evan Buddenbohn

The whole time we were wandering the village we had the local children coming up to us so they could offer up any English phrases they knew along with a smile & a laugh. We’d reply back accordingly, but it was typically already at the length of the conversation’s capability. They do much better than me though, I could hardly offer up even the most basic of greetings in Malay, even after spending a week there.

At one point a woman who on a video call got very excited at our passing, turned the camera on us, & informed the person on the other end of the line to “look!” Exclaiming, “we have guests!” We all smiled & waves before moving on through the village.

Once we returned to the resort it was lunch time. Most of us were satisfied with our gatherings from the excursion, but we went by anyway just to fill in any gaps we felt we were missing in our afternoon meal. Towards the end of lunch it started to rain. At first is was just a sprinkle, which we used to return to our room before the downpour came, & boy did it.

We were just about back to our room when the storm unleashed. Massive rain drops hit like meteors in the dry dirt, the trees roared with the wind & the smattering of the droplets. We ran the rest of the way back & quickly pulled our drying gear from off the rack on the balcony.

Not three minutes into the storm the waterfall started.

Remember in part one when I talked about waking up in the middle of the night unable to breathe? This was around night #2 at the resort. I remember distinctly telling Evan that what I was feeling was similar to when there is an abundance of mold present in a room. I am very allergic to mold. Well, we now know the source.

Indoor Water Feature #1

Yes, the waterfall started. Down the wall between my bed & the air conditioning unit was about a three foot wide cascade of water streaming down the side of the wall & dripping from the ceiling. I quickly got up, moved my laptop that was charging on the outlet right under the leak & scooted out the bed from the wall. As soon as we had done that we noticed the trickle of water that was starting to emerge from under the baseboards on the opposite side of the room. It began to pool & puddle pretty quickly. I gathered my shoes & an umbrella & made my way back to the dining hall which also housed the reception desk for the resort.

Indoor Water Feature #2

Once there the woman at the desk call for housekeeping. She then asked me to return to our room & wait. About five minutes later a man from housekeeping showed up, took some pictures, & told us to wait here. Then we heard nothing for about an hour & a half.

By the hour & a half mark I decided that I would need to return to guest services to see what the plan was. Once I got there I was informed they had moved us rooms & had apparently already prepared it for us about an hour earlier, the only problem was that the room was directly below the one we were in. It shared the same walls, the same ceiling/floor, everything. So I expressed that.

The woman working the desk, to her credit, had very good English. Again, far exceeding any grasp I could possibly have on Malay, but we weren’t bridging the gap of language barrier. I was trying to explain that due to my severe mold allergy I would need to be away from that room as much as possible. Nothing sharing walls, ceilings, floors, etc.. She just kept saying that she understood before saying they moved us to the room downstairs. Eventually I did the annoying tourist thing that I try to avoid, pulled out google translate, & illustrated the problem in Malay. That made it click. She then informed housekeeping one more time & they tidied a room & moved us down to another building, not connected to the first.

After The Rain by Evan Buddenbohn

We’d skipped out on doing an afternoon dive in favor of a night/sunset dive. Those of us who were invested in the night dive (Erica, Jennifer, Roy, & myself) all met down at the docks around 6 PM. We also ended up diving with another guide that evening, but I unfortunately never got his name. At this point the rain had been over with for about two hours, but it had unfortunately left all of our gear from the morning pretty soaked. At least they were now cleaner than before, though that wetsuit was absolutely freezing to put on.

Our dive started around 6:30. At this point the sun had almost entirely set & night was rapidly upon us. We just dove right off the end of the jetty, technically doing a shallower redo of “Paradise 2” in the dark, only maxing out at about 40 feet. It was actually a wonderful night dive spot, mixing a bit of muck diving with reef. There were lots of things out & about for the evening & lots of things that had come in to the reef or nestled down in the sand for shelter during the night ahead.

The craziest thing was the amount of urchins that had come out for the night. They were literally everywhere covering most of the rocks, decking, sand, or anything else. Long Spined Urchins literally everywhere. I always wonder where they go during the day & how they manage to navigate the crags & cubbies they hide in with spines that are around a foot long.

We almost immediately found another day octopus (though I guess it would then have been a night octopus…………….) upon our descent into the darkness. It clearly didn’t want anything to do with us & kept attempting to use a shell to cover up the entrance to the cave it had found to hunker down in. After that the dive was a veritable blend of invertebrates & predatory fish.

We saw a large handful of hermit crabs ranging from size from fingernail to soccer ball. We found several black Forskal’s Slugs, a cluster of rabbitfish attempting to appear as a rock on the ocean floor, Tube Anemones, Hancock’s Flatworms, some sleeping sea turtles, Tile Starfish, a Papal Miltre, a small school of Antennata Lionfish, a Zebra Eel, lots of different Pufferfish, a Banded Pipefish, a Velutin Snail, lots of nudibranchs, a big ole Horned Helmet Snail buried in the sand bed, a Bearded Fireworm, some Shrimpfish hiding amongst the spines of the urchins, & two juvenile Harlequin Sweetlips wiggling about.

By the time we’d finished the dive the tide was up so high that we could just float up onto the dock to get out. We quickly dried, stored our gear, & made our way down to dinner which was on the verge of closing out. After that we were all fairly beat & called it a night.

Washed Up Trees On Sipadan by Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Six


Day Seven

This was to be our last day of diving. If you’re unfamiliar with dive protocol you’re not supposed to dive within 24 hours prior to a flight. So, typically dive resorts keep your last day with them clear so that you can keep that window of time clear. Since we weren’t out at Sipadan we got to sleep in a bit AND have breakfast.

We were back out at Kapalai this morning. Our dive site was “Little Okinawa.” Not entirely sure why the site was called that, but it featured a sloped reef that led to a sandy bottom with another smaller reef on the other side. Erica & Jennifer went off with Tonny & Darin, his daughter, Deb, & I went down with Roy, as per the usual arrangement.

I’d been having a bit of trouble with my ear the previous day or so, I could feel the eustachian tubes getting sore from all of the equalizing, & I had a bit of trouble off & on throughout the week with a reverse squeeze in my left ear. Some of you may remember that I actually perforated my left ear drum back in March of 2024 in the Philippines. You can read about that here. Well… It reopened…

After years of healing that included diving along the way, my left ear decided it wanted to go ahead & perforate again.

It was entirely unexpected & happened in only about 30 feet of water. I remember clearing my ear upon decent, which did so without issue, then having a horrible reverse squeeze when I happened back up a foot or so with passing current. When I went back down to try & relieve the reverse squeeze I was met with severe pain. My dive group was gathered around a decent sized Broadclub Cuttlefish at the time just under out entry point & I almost called the dive then & there. The pain was so bad that I started tearing up but then like nothing, it went away. So before I could even attempt to convey the “I’m out” message, it had dissipated. I thought I was in the clear until we started to ascend at the end of the dive & I could feel it/hear it. The little tiny bubbles slipping out of the tiny hole in my ear drum as the gas within expanded from the decrease in ambient pressure. Luckily I wear a diver’s earplug in that ear, so minimal saltwater got in, but it’s still incredibly uncomfortable.

The literal hole in my head aside, the dive was actually pretty good! I mentioned the Cuttlefish, we ended up also seeing a Dwarf Cuttlefish towards the end of the dive. The front half of the dive was actually a little light on things to see & Darin & his daughter ended up calling the dive about halfway through & left Deb & Roy & me to continue on. Once they’d left we found all of the good stuff of course. Clear Cleaner Shrimp, Sexy Shrimp, heaps of different kinds of nudibranchs, some doing fun things. A group of around 10 black lionfish, some of which were free swimming in the current. Itty bitty baby clownfish, a field of Garden Eels, a white stonefish, a juvenile black ribbon eel, & of course more turtles & the aforementioned bobtail cuttlefish. Deb also put it perfectly when she came up & said “wow, absolutely just drunk on coral” & she was correct, the colors on the coral at Little Okinawa were magnificent.

Bougainvillea By Evan Buddenbohn

Naturally, with my bum drum, I didn’t go on anymore dives, though the rest of the folks did. I ended up spending the rest of the day oscillating reading poolside & editing video down on the jetty. At some point Evan got a massage & I made the incredibly stupid decision to try & get the water out of my ear with a bit of “Swimmer’s Ear” solution. Which, is you’re not aware, is a mixture of glycerin & alcohol. Oh, & I made the really stupid decision to equalize my ear while doing it so that the solution would get into the inner ear. I felt like someone was manually ripping my ear off of my head. You’re welcome for that macabre diversion by the way.

From there we eventually found our way down to the shop where we purchased the Blueberry varietal of Cream-O’s before heading to the bar for further editing, drinks, fries, & samosas.

Y’all. The Blueberry Cream-O’s. Exceptional. I know back in day six I said we’d talk about Cream-O’s further. Well the time has come.

The blueberry flavor is not like an Oreo. It maintains that shape & vibe, but it is a vanilla cookie with vanilla cream in the center & a nice little dollop of blueberry jam on the top. They are pang as the British say! I liked them so much that I ate an entire pack of them in one night. I then had to go back before we left & buy four sleeves of them to take home. Cannot recommend enough & some of the rest of our group was well on board with them also by the time we left.

As the evening let on more & more people filtered into the bar. At a certain point, so did the dive crew. They had the next day off for Eid, the end of Ramadan, & were celebrating a successful week of work with a bottle of scotch that Roy had procured.

When dinner was called we all drifted down & had our fill. Afterwards I told Evan that I wasn’t yet tired & we made our way back across the resort onto the jetty & returned to the bar.

I could tell we spoiled their fun a little bit. That wasn’t my intention at all & I understand that at the resort bar the guests’ wants & comforts come first. But as we walked down the jetty towards the bar we could hear it, karaoke.

We strolled in & sat down on the outer edge. We ordered our typical rum & coke & sat there. As soon as we were sat the staff stopped doing karaoke & resorted to doomscrolling or eating the food they’d had delivered. Ev & I felt bad so we got up to leave after finishing our drink so that they could get back to enjoying their night off. It was here, while we were waiting for the bartender to return to cash out, that we were met at the counter by Roy & his bottle of scotch. He graciously asked us to have a drink with him, which we agreed to, then before we could order our own drinks so as not to subtract from his hard earned scotch, he poured us two very large glasses filled with the brown liquid. He proceeded to shoot his while Evan & I sipped gingerly. It was here that I think the levity was able to creep back in & Karaoke resumed.

The guides kept apologizing profusely to us about the lower than average visibility we’d had over the week. They explained that the rainy season had lasted longer than it usually did & that they had gotten about twice as much rain as they typically do in a year, so all of the rivers were still washing out the silt from the mainland that had yet to settle in the ocean. We just kept reassuring them that it was okay & also, definitely wasn’t their fault or the resorts fault, that we still had a great time filled with great dives. We’d just need to come back a little later in the season next time.

Another tall rocks glass of scotch later for each of us & we were being propositioned to sing. I knew Evan wouldn’t do it so I accepted. The Malaysians then chose “Tennessee Whiskey” by Chris Stapleton as my song to sing because we were from Tennessee.

How is it that I always end up singing on dive trips? I’m not mad at it & am happy to have fun with it & all that jazz, it just always seems to happen.

After I finished Tennessee Whiskey I was asked to perform another before we left. Evan was sat at the bar getting drunker & drunker & the bottle of scotch just kept extending our way. He eventually looked at me & said “if you don’t sing so we can leave I’m going to pass out.” So I  sang “Feeling Good” & we stumbled back down the jetty to our room to fall quickly asleep.

House Reef From Above by Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Seven


Day Eight

Our last day at the resort was very casual. We slept in a bit, got down to breakfast, sat around by the pool for a while, & basically just all around relaxed. In the early afternoon, about an hour or so after lunch, I, myself, got a massage! It, much like the rest of the day was very relaxed.

At some point we went around doing our due diligence; closing out tabs, handing out tips, stocking up on Blueberry Cream-O’s, gathering & packing up our dive gear (hanging out what needed drying still to dry), packing up our clothes, & preparing for our early morning departure the next day. Naturally I also spent much of the day editing videos & piecing together different things for this blog series.

Flags On The Jetty

Just before sunset we all gathered at the end of the jetty. The Duffins (Darin & the fam) are proper fans of a sunset cruise, especially as a way of closing out a stay & in all honesty, I dig it. It’s got a sense of chill style to it. Folks ordered drinks from the bar for the excursion then we gathered in one of the dive boats & were off.

The drive around the island was truly a cruise. A slow mosey which came in high contrast to the majority of the rides we’d had in the dive boats over the week. Then it didn’t matter that we were getting splattered against the waves, we were going to get wet anyway. Now we had on nicer clothing, phones, cameras, & the like.

We were joined on board by Roy & Tonny, additionally there was another boat of tourists that were following us around, taking in the amazing views & crystal waters that the island had to offer. We rounded the island, passing by each of the resorts, interacting with the locals along the way who had come up to sell us fish, crab, or lobster, before we wrapped around to the West side of Mabul to sit & watch the sunset.

Borneo Sunset

Steven, one of the guys in our group, did something that I really enjoyed & I am definitely stealing for later trips. He brought a Polaroid Camera. He’d snap pictures, mostly of locals, then hand the photos directly to them. Each time was met with a bit of confusion, followed by an outburst of joy & it was such an endearingly human thing to see. I think we often forget how much photography used to be a physical media form. How many people, anywhere in the world, have a recent photograph of themselves that they can physically hold or display? I know we don’t have many. Most of us keep our stores of photos in digital spaces & never have something of ourselves or the people we care about that is tangible. What an amazing, yet simple, gift to offer up to the people who have welcomed you into their space & allowed you to exist & habitat their land & their waters for a week. He continued this around with the resort & dive staff as well.

The sunset over Borneo was breathtaking. The mountains of the island melted seamlessly into the thunderheads outlining the edge of them in a soft orange glow while the sty remained a soft blue. We sat there on the western edge for around thirty minutes, just taking in the sky & the village from an entirely new angle. It was such a lovely capstone to the trip.

Dinner was being served by the time that we arrived back at the dock. We made our way down as a group, had one last dinner together, then went off our separate ways to finish packing & any other preparation for the early morning & long travel day we had ahead of us.

Boat Of Mabul by Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Eight


Day Nine

Sunrise Fishermen

It was almost like we were headed to Sipadan again. We had been instructed to be up by 5 AM & have our bags packed & waiting outside of our rooms. Resort staff then came around with several massive wheelbarrow like carts, filled the to the brim with our belongings, & carted them down to the end of the jetty. Our time to be at the end of the jetty was 5:30 AM with an aimed departure time of 5:45, though we didn’t end up pushing off until right around 6.

Similar to how we got to the island, we were all loaded into a boat with rowed seating & all of our luggage was loaded into the back. The morning crossing was much less choppy than the week prior & we got to watch the sunrise over the Celebes Sea one last time.

Once we got back to Semporna, we were presented with a little take away breakfast. It consisted of some watermelon, a hard boiled egg, & a butter sandwich. We sat outside a closed Starbucks munching away on them until the bus was pulled around & we & our luggage were loaded up.

At this point it was just short of 7 AM & the more time we sat waiting to depart in the bus, the closer the Starbucks we’d been sat at was to opening. Finally right at 7 AM the driver got on & got ready to depart. He was halted by someone up front who asked if we had time to step back off & get a coffee from the recently unlocked Starbucks, he said that we did so we all went in & got coffees & pastries for the road. Ev & I are typically not Starbucks patrons but availability & lack of caffeination got the better of us & we indulged.

Back on the road with an Ube Muffin & an Ice Kacang Frappe we headed from Semporna back to the Tawau Airport. I read & napped along the way & we arrived at the airport just before 9 AM. We got all checked in & still had a bit of time before we needed to get through the small security station they had, so we all filed back into the line for Subway to get a bit of food for the plane ride back to Kuala Lumpur.

Once through security we found ourselves doing a lot of ‘hurry up & wait,’ moving from one seated section to another to another until finally it was time to board our 11:30 Air Asia flight back to the mainland.

Evan & I didn’t realize we had so much time between our arrival back in Kuala Lumpur & our departure to Singapore. About 2/3rds of the group were going on back to The States the evening of our arrival, another 1/3rd (minus us) was staying in Kuala Lumpur for a few more days, then we were going on to Singapore to spend a couple of days there.

We’d flirted with the idea of going to a lot of different places across Asia after finishing up our time in Borneo. I’m always of the mind that if I’m flying halfway around the world, I might as well make the most of it & see something or somewhere else while I’m over there. We’d floated the option of a full additional week in Japan or Thailand, leaning heavily into the idea of the former. We then thought well, if we’re not going to do a whole week, where would we like to spend a few days, & those options came up as Hong Kong, Shanghai, or Singapore. We did lean heavily on Japan as the choice at first, like I said, but decided against it when we realized we’d have to haul our big bags all over Japan, which it is not conducive to. We opted for the shorter time in Singapore where I had been, but Evan hadn’t.

So we bid the group goodbye, handing our hugs & good luck & made our way up to the ticketing counter to see if we could move to the earlier flight to Singapore since our flight into Malaysia had gotten in so much earlier than we’d anticipated. They were unfortunately entirely booked up, so we got to wait around for 6 hours for our evening flight out.

They went ahead & let us check our bags, which was nice, so that we didn’t have to haul them around the airport. With a ton of time to kill, we took the opportunity to hit up Din Tai Fung & get some dumplings.

The irony of us going to Din Tai Fung in one of the best food cities in the world is not lost on me. Sure, we could go to a local spot that probably blows it out of the water at a fourth of the cost, & sure, I’m sure there was probably one such stall somewhere in the airport, but Din Tai Fung holds a special place in our hearts as occasional Los Angelinos & it’s based in Taiwan anyway.

We got a number of soup dumplings, shui mai, fried rice, & a bao or two. It was interesting having it in Malaysia because they didn’t serve pork due to Malaysia being predominantly Muslim. Pork is not halal, if you didn’t know. The real star of the show at Din Tai Fung though is their chocolate dumplings which come with a vanilla cream dipping sauce. They’re incredibly rich & altogether slap so hard.
After lunch we decided to walk around the mall attached that we’d walked through several days prior in the early morning hours while being escorted by Jasmine. It was majority food, but there were also quite a few clothing shops as well. We ended up in a pretty large grocery store at one point where we witnessed the universal International traveler experience.

A man had ask one of the workers at the shop for a specific item & the language barrier was barriering. So he pulled out his phone, typed in the ask, then extended the screen out towards the face of the man he was asking for help from. & there it was, the universal International traveler experience. Runs into a language barrier. Pulls out phone. Types in what they’re after in Google or Apple translate. Fully extends arm out towards other person with screen facing them. It happens in every country I’ve ever been in. I’m of course guilty of it too at times.

After a while we found ourselves tired of walking around & returned to ticketing to then return to the coffee. for another out of this world iced hazelnut latte. We sat there a bit, charging our devices, before we decided it was time to move on & make our way through security.

There’s not much else to this tale of Malaysia other than maybe the fact that we had to go through three different security checkpoints to get to our Scoot flight to Singapore. It departed Kuala Lumpur at about 7:30 in the evening & they had us sat aboard a dreamliner for an hour long flight south.

Shallow Waters By Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Day Nine


Waves On Sipadan by Evan Buddenbohn

End Of Part Two & Blog Series…..Kind Of….